first of all, im not heart broken -- my heart is very whole, and is in a very good condition (buyag!) -- i just decided to write about heartaches and break up's simply because im surrounded by couples breaking up, girlfriends crying, boyfriends drinking 'till their stomachs turn -- there's too much "sad drama" surrounding me right now that i just don't want to lose the "happy drama" i'm experiencing now --
i've been hurt before of course -- i've cried, i've cursed and i've wished people unwell, but i never got to the point of breaking down and go as low as self-pity -- i walk as if im one of the prettiest girls in the world but, what i know is that i'm smart and wise :p -- confidence, i know, that has always been my weapon :p
LOVERS come and go, and it's actually up to them if they wanna stay or not -- we cant do anything about it, but be the best that we can possibly be --
here's what i do after a breakup :
1) DIVERSION
-- i party, i surround myself with friends, i clean the house, i write, i learn something new -- this takes ur mind off the pain -- i dont believe in the saying "time heals all wounds" -- you learn how live without it --
2) RIBBON CUTTING
-- delete them as a friend in FB, unfollow in twitter or even block them from viewing all your profiles -- it may sound bitter the first time, but after a long time, you'll just realize that you just dint want them in ur life anymore --
3) STOP CRYING !
-- cry like a baby ONCE, and only ONCE ! pour it out, doesnt matter if it sounds like a tsunami is coming, but pour your pains out -- ONLY ONCE -- coz there will come a point in your life that you will look back on that certain day and realize how stupid u are for crying that much -- crying never helps, it only worsens how u feel about urself, plus you'd look awful --
4) DON'T SEEK FOR REVENGE, JUST STAY PRETTY
-- im a libra, so im too lazy for any confrontations, so i just sit , get my make up on and look damn GOOD :) looking beautiful and radiant is, and always will be the greatest revenge -- period.
and if all things fail just smile :)as they say in the vernacular: "MADA RANA'G SMILE ! "
"you can turn off the sun, but i'm still gonna shine !" -- The Remedy
=== yhielle ===
